"Hi, if you want to hang out more, please arrange it with me! I’m always happy to see you but sometimes I have plans with other people, as I’m sure you do. Let’s both make more of an effort with this!"
"Friend, no-one is going to buy you drinks. Sorry, but we’re not millionaires and that is clearly a new handbag/ring/whatever - if you wanna have drinks, please do what we do and put some cash aside for it. We can’t afford it and it’s making you pretty hard to be around."
How she chooses to react to the above is ultimately her business. She can change her behaviour or you can stop being her friend, it’s so simple.
Sending a person who is very outspoken in their anti-porn beliefs a porn blog to ‘give their opinions on’ without any kind of indication or warning is a fucking shitty thing to do, dude.
The thing about relationships is that they vary according to the individuals involved. I personally would not tolerate that whatsoever, but that’s my view and it mightn’t reflect yours. Does it make you uncomfortable? Then it sucks. Are you cool with it? Then it’s cool, but don’t allow him to act like y’all are in a monogamous relationship because that simply isn’t the case.
Yes and the sky is blue.